| Location | Laindon |
| Age | 45 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 16/01/1961 |
| Date of Death | 21/10/2006 |
| Visitors | 2,784 since 21/07/2008 |
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16/01/61
21/10/06
Kay was married to Steve. She had 3 children, Kevin, Kellee and Carolanne.
Much loved mum in law to Diane. Beloved daughter of Ethel and William Smart and loving sister to Ken, Joan, Sandra, Alan, Jennifer, Pat, Sue, Andrew, Edward. Also aunt, cousin, niece and friend to many.
Kay was a very special person who was loved by all that came into her life.
A fierce protector of her family and friends, hardworking, funloving, generous and kind she asked for nothing in return for the love and support she gave so freely to everyone. Kay fought a brave battle against cancer in which she suffered greatly but never complained. As usual, always thinking of others, never putting herself first.
Kay was a truly brave lady.
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The past has gone the time has come
When you sadly had to go
And though you're not here with us
You've left such warmth and we know
A feeling of contentment
As your memory lives on
In all the happy moments
That tell us you're not gone
Although we cannot touch you
It feels that you are near
Your presence is still comforting
Just as if you are still here
Our arms reach out to touch you
Drawing you near our beating hearts
To hold you close knowing
We will never be apart
So as we speak, you listen
As we cry, you wipe our tears
As we smile, you're smiling with us
Remembering happy years
Though we walk alone, you're with us
Every step of every day
You haven't really gone
You're still right here
Our beautiful sister Kay
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Another year
I can't believe it's been 4 years already Kay but sometimes it seems like it was only yesterday you were still here with us.
I was thinking about you early hours of this morning - I remembered you as a toddler when you came out of hospital after trying to eat some toy and getting it stuck in your throat. You looked so sweet in your matching hat and coat. I wonder why that image is so strong? Then I remembered you dancing round the front garden being witchy-poo :D you looking out for me at school, not afraid of any bullies, always like a big sister instead of the younger one.... and the fact that you are still the only person I ever gave a black eye - sorry about that Kay. We had some awful arguments when we were teenagers didn't we? lol
I miss you Kay, wish you were still here to share the good times and the bad but you will be forever in the hearts of those who love you, never very far, never forgotten. Love you xxXxx
Hi Kay, I was with your girls friday night at the staff party and just wanted to say what a credit they are to you..They have grown up into beautiful kind and caring people and you must be very proud of them...Lots of love xxxxxxx
Always a smile, instead of a frown,
Always a hand, when I was feeling down,
Always true, thoughtful and kind,
Such wonderful memories you left behind.
The happy hours we once enjoyed,
How sweet their memory still.
But losing you Kay has left a space,
This world can never fill.
In my heart forever.
Love and miss you so much Kay
xxxxxXXxxxxx
Her Journey's Just Begun
Don't think of her as gone away,
Her journey's just begun.
Life holds so many facets,
This earth is only one.
Just think of her as resting
from the sorrows and the tears,
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years.
Think how she must be wishing
That we could know today,
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away.
And think of her as living
In the hearts of those she touched,
For nothing loved is ever lost
And she was loved so much.
Ellen Brennaman
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Today ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Today a feather dropped from the sky
It made me wish that I could fly
Above the clouds way up high
To join my angel in the sky
Today I missed you oh so much
Missed your smile and your gentle touch
I wished that I could turn back time
So once again you'd be mine
Today I wished that I could fly
fly through time to make you mine
Mine just like you used to be
Today I wished you were with me
copyright© Ingrid Aspey 2/7/09
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hey mum
your finaly a nan ! i know you always wanted to become a nan and now you are :D
i know you already know but i thought would write it on here.
kev and di had a lil girl 27th may yet another may bithday lol and as you can see she is gorgeous ! she looks alot like kev.
me and kel had a good cry together today we miss you so so much mum love you lots and lots and lots !
love meeee carolanne xxxxxx
It doesnt take a special day
To bring you to my mind
Every day is special to me
You were one of a kind
I think of you often
Mostly at the night
Where dreams help to soften
A love that felt so right
I know you'l always be with me
Right till the very end
Until the day we meet again
My heart will never mend
Jayne Roddy
xxxx
Hello Sis
its me again, wishing we could have a natter like we used to. I miss you a lot tonight. Every now and again it hits me like a bolt from the blue that you're gone and my heart breaks all over again. I try very hard not to cry too much cos I know you never wanted that but sometimes, just sometimes, the missing you is too much, the pain is too much and I have to have a good old blub. But swollen red eyes and a runny nose does nothing for my looks lol so I've stopped now and will carry on trying to be strong for you Kay. Just wanted to tell you I miss you....
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